Dr. Asher Lipner is a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of clinical experience. He supports individuals and couples dealing with pornography addiction, compulsive sexual behaviors, betrayal trauma, and intimacy-related difficulties. He works with men seeking recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors, partners coping with the impact of betrayal, and couples striving to rebuild trust, honesty, and emotional connection. His clinical focus centers on helping clients navigate complex relational and behavioral concerns with structured support.
His therapeutic approach combines evidence-based interventions with compassion, accountability, and respect for each clients values and goals. Treatment is individualized and may include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), trauma-informed care, attachment-based approaches, motivational interviewing, and mindfulness-based strategies. He also brings extensive experience addressing anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship difficulties, and concerns related to faith. He welcomes clients from diverse backgrounds and has specialized experience working with members of the Orthodox Jewish community, offering care that remains consistent with each persons beliefs and values.
His therapeutic approach combines evidence-based interventions with compassion, accountability, and respect for each clients values and goals. Treatment is individualized and may include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), trauma-informed care, attachment-based approaches, motivational interviewing, and mindfulness-based strategies. He also brings extensive experience addressing anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship difficulties, and concerns related to faith. He welcomes clients from diverse backgrounds and has specialized experience working with members of the Orthodox Jewish community, offering care that remains consistent with each persons beliefs and values.
Served areas
- Lakewood, NJ, Toms River, NJ, Jackson, NJ, Brooklyn, NY, Monsey, NY
Highlights and features
- Specialized therapy for betrayal trauma, pornography, and sexual addiction recovery
- Licensed clinical psychologist with over 15 years of professional experience
- Evidence-based strategies promoting accountability, emotional regulation, and lasting healing
- Confidential, respectful, and nonjudgmental counseling for individuals and couples
- In-person and virtual therapy sessions with flexible weekday availability
- Free 15-minute phone consultation to discuss your recovery journey
Payment methods
- Cash
- Debit cards
- Credit cards
Services
We provide Individual Therapy focused on addressing sex and porn addiction and related compulsive behaviors. Sessions are offered both online and in person in Central New Jersey. Our work emphasizes rebuilding relationships, restoring trust, strengthening coping abilities, and supporting clients in achieving healthier intimacy and greater emotional balance throughout recovery as part of a structured therapeutic process.
We offer professional support for partners impacted by infidelity, sexual addiction, and related betrayal trauma. Therapy is delivered through structured, evidence-informed individual and couples sessions. Our work focuses on breaking cycles of mistrust, secrecy, and emotional disconnection. We help restore stability, improve relational understanding, and support emotional healing after relational trauma.
We offer group therapy addressing sex addiction and intimacy anorexia, focusing on the role of secrecy and emotional isolation in addiction. We regard addiction as an illness that both results from and intensifies these conditions. Clients participate in a shared recovery environment with others experiencing similar difficulties. Continued peer contact outside of therapy is supported to enhance mutual support, accountability, and sustained healing.
Men often struggle with persistent pornography use and compulsive sexual behavior even after repeated attempts to stop. Outward stability may conceal internal cycles of urges, shame, secrecy, and isolation. We provide outpatient psychological treatment in Jackson, NJ and surrounding areas for men seeking structured support. Therapy focuses on understanding underlying drivers, reducing compulsive cycles, and improving emotional regulation and relationships.
People
Dr. Asher Lipner
I work with people struggling with porn and sex addictions who want help stopping them. Too many people are trying to heal from their addictions on their own. This is causing them to feel incredible loneliness and shame as they get caught up in a cycle. If the issues aren't addressed with outside help they can end up getting worse.
I started working with people struggling with porn or sex addictions because I saw so many people are stuck living a life in which they are desperately lonely as a result of their addiction. They dont realize what's missing in their life because their secret addiction has masked the emptiness they feel and they no longer have the ability to fix the problems in their lives.
I started working with people struggling with porn or sex addictions because I saw so many people are stuck living a life in which they are desperately lonely as a result of their addiction. They dont realize what's missing in their life because their secret addiction has masked the emptiness they feel and they no longer have the ability to fix the problems in their lives.
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Frady
Jun 11, 2026
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As a member of the mental health profession, I have known Dr. Lipner for many years. Dr. Lipner brings a rare combination of clinical knowledge, emotional depth, and genuine care to his work. He is thoughtful, ethical, compassionate, and deeply committed to helping individuals and couples navigate difficult emotional and relationship struggles. I highly recommend him.